Yesterday, Sat, My friend & I were crazy enough to catch a bus to terminal 3 for dinner. As I was getting ready I receive a call from my bro's fren who over the past 2 years has become a permanent fixture in my family parties. "Hey what are you doing? Your bro said u needed a favour?" I remember once I asked him why he wasnt married yet and his response, "I wana marry u, how? Wil u marry me? In fact I told your bro last yr that if ure still single in the next couple of years I'll marry u." "Im running away from this country, if ure ok with running away with me then i'll marry u," was my reply with a cheeky smile :d
I went to drop my mom and her friend at someplace, as I got off the car to cross the road, I could hear her friend asking her my age and if im seeing someone. Finally a few phonecalls later, she tells my mom there is an eligible bachelor. Haha i was thinking to myself, tday is not ur day. "Ur mapillai, is he ok with running away?", i blurted. She was taken aback, well I was in my rebelious mode that day too bad eh! 2 weeks later she calls trying her luck again, my mom was on the phone, I was opposite her doing a charade of a bird flying and a plane taking off, I swear my mom felt like throwing something at me heh :))))
Of course I still get messages from THE sleezy MF matrimonial website, y am I still in then? well, when Im in my stressed rebel mode some MF gets it from me, its better than a stressball, trust me... Ive met tons of sick chauvanistic Bs! One was ready to give me 300K and move to Aust and take care of me. When I told him I was in love with someone else, he proposed marriage!!!!! Of course not mentioning the tons of sex maniacs in there whose conversations revolve ONLY around sex....anywhere around the globe they are all the same, they all think thru their other head!
But there was one, who chat with me one nite, I happened to be up late doing my assignment that night. We shared the same thoughts, we were discussing abt the website and life. He had his own set of problems, the women he met were more interested in marryig his US citizenship rather than him. Recently an interesting soul whom I came across in Orkut sometime back, shared his life story with me. If he was anywhere near me, i swear I would have given him a huge hug. I take my hats of to this guy who amidst all his miseries is still able to infuse humour and make me smile reading his mails. Chandler, as he calls himself, and I have become friends, its kind of wierd how we met actually, was an accident. He had gone missing since Jan and re-appeared last week with a 'hi' email. I would want to meet him one day. The most courages soul Ive come across in my life! A true hero.
Its amazing how some people have so much of love to give and people either are ignorant (or maybe just dense) or just take advantage of their kindness. There are yet others who go after women or men who are totally worthless when they have a soul still in waiting for them. They are totally blind to the good people around them and rather go after some selfish, manipulative, boastful, disgusting being...trust me Ive met 1 such woman, who had no qualms lieing to the man she was practically having an affair with. Not that this man was any angel himself....she had lied to him that she was single when she was already engaged, and her defense, I just wanted to see how far this man would go to marry me...guess what this man actually went all the way to Europe not knowing what he was in for...of course he wasnt there solely for that purpose himself. Disgusting women like her dont think twice about faking their pragnancy nor lieing about having a sibling in hospital with his stomach out. She thought everyone around her was as sly and dumb as she was...of course there are others who stick around you in the name of helping you, with a different agenda of course and some others who go into a total 'silence' cos the world has come down on them but of course their other 'face' is secretly functioning to fish for some sympathy....i have shivers down my spine til tday when i think of the lies I was told by these women....that sould explain why most of my frens happen to me male....there are people who would actually stoop that low.....hmm.....but it was a good experience dealing with these women..as I tell my pupils everyday, no school prepares you for the challenges that life is gona challenge you with...now when i think of it, its just hilarious!
Alright my 30 mins is up. Ive got a drinking session soon. Its been some time hehe.....Vodka, JD, Bombay Sapphire, southern comfort...hmm my cousin is shifting and we are there to finish off the bottles, the last day in this house... Cheers to 689D!
