A couple of weeks ago I was asked this question by a friend. Would you marry the man who loves you or would you marry the man you love? Well it took me sometime to answer cos obviously my ans is gona be biased. She wanted an opinion as she was confused. She is dating this american who is currently working in singapore. Does love exist still? Im not sure about that but Ive given up on love cos most of the time even though its expressed by the other, somehow in the end it ends up one sided. Well it is nice as long as it lasts but after that all that stays is pain. How is it to be told by the man whom u hold so dear that ure no longer in his future plans?
Ive rejected many in my life, but this one, he's just impossible to be erased and I wonder why. Well there's nothing I can do as it looks like he's found himself another. My friend asks me, how do you bring urself to wish him well? My response to her, when u love a man anything is possible, u dont even have to think. Somehow along the way u stop fighting for the love u want and eventually settle for the love that wants you, if you dont get what u want then at least let the other who desires have u. Many come into your life, some leave footprints and there can only be one who is engraved for a lifetime. Life goes on, responsibilities continue, we meet new ones along the way, but you know your time has passed with the past......
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter"
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